Songs by Genre
At Last
SlowEtta James (1960)
The quintessential first dance song - timeless and elegant
Unforgettable
SlowNat King Cole (1951)
Romantic classic, also beautiful as duet version with Natalie Cole
The Way You Look Tonight
MediumFrank Sinatra (1964)
Elegant and sophisticated, perfect for a classic wedding
Can't Help Falling in Love
SlowElvis Presley (1961)
Romantic and simple, easy to dance to
Fly Me to the Moon
MediumFrank Sinatra (1964)
Upbeat classic with romantic lyrics
La Vie En Rose
SlowEdith Piaf (1947)
Romantic French classic, also beautiful in Louis Armstrong version
What a Wonderful World
SlowLouis Armstrong (1967)
Optimistic and heartwarming
Moon River
SlowAudrey Hepburn (1961)
Dreamy and romantic, from Breakfast at Tiffany's
How to Choose Your First Dance Song
Consider your dancing ability
If you are not confident dancers, choose a slow song that only requires swaying. If you want to do choreography, pick something with a clear beat.
Check the lyrics
Read the full lyrics before committing. Some songs sound romantic but have sad or inappropriate verses. Make sure the message matches your celebration.
Think about length
Most songs are 3-4 minutes. Ask your DJ to create a 2-minute edit, or plan to invite guests to join you partway through.
Choose something meaningful
The best first dance songs have personal significance - the song from your first date, a concert you attended together, or one that captures your relationship.
Match your wedding vibe
A formal ballroom wedding calls for classic elegance. A barn wedding might suit country or indie folk. Match the song to your overall aesthetic.
Listen together
Both partners should love the song. Play your top choices while slow dancing at home to see which feels most natural.
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Found Your Song?
Once you have chosen your first dance song, practice dancing to it at home. It will feel more natural on your wedding day, and you will have a special memory of dancing in your kitchen.