Question 1

Who plans the bridal shower?

Accepted Answer

Traditionally the maid of honor and bridesmaids host the bridal shower, often with help from the bride's mother or close relatives. It's not appropriate for the bride to host her own shower.

Question 2

How far before the wedding should the bachelorette party be?

Accepted Answer

Plan the bachelorette party 1-3 months before the wedding. This gives everyone time to recover and avoids conflicts with last-minute wedding prep. Weekend trips are typically 6-8 weeks before.

Question 3

Who is invited to the rehearsal dinner?

Accepted Answer

The wedding party, immediate family, officiant, and their partners are always invited. Many couples also include out-of-town guests, grandparents, and close friends who aren't in the wedding party.

Question 4

Who pays for the rehearsal dinner?

Accepted Answer

Traditionally the groom's parents host and pay for the rehearsal dinner. Today, costs are often split or covered by whichever family offers. The couple may also host if they prefer.

Pre-Wedding Events Guide

Bachelorette Party Ideas

Bachelor Party Planning

Bridal Shower Checklist

Rehearsal Dinner Guide