Experience & Style
1"How many weddings have you performed at?"
Why ask: Experience matters. Look for 50+ weddings minimum.
Red flag: They can't give you a number or seem to be guessing
2"Can I see videos from past weddings or attend a live event?"
Why ask: You need to see their actual DJ style, not just hear about it.
Red flag: No videos available or refuses to let you see them perform
3"What's your MC style - energetic or subtle?"
Why ask: Some DJs hype the crowd, others are background-focused. Match your preference.
Red flag: They don't understand the question or can't adjust their style
4"How do you read the crowd and adjust music?"
Why ask: Great DJs adapt in real-time based on who's dancing.
Red flag: Rigid pre-planned setlists with no flexibility
5"What will you wear to my wedding?"
Why ask: Ensure they match your formality level.
Red flag: Casual clothes for a black-tie wedding
Music & Equipment
1"What equipment do you use and is it professional-grade?"
Why ask: Quality equipment = quality sound. Cheap speakers distort at volume.
Red flag: Consumer-grade equipment or evasive answers
2"Do you have backup equipment?"
Why ask: Equipment fails. Pros always have backups.
Red flag: No backups or they'll 'figure it out'
3"Can you provide music for ceremony and cocktail hour?"
Why ask: Some DJs only do reception; confirm all your needs.
Red flag: Extra fees for obvious services without upfront disclosure
4"How do you handle song requests from guests?"
Why ask: You may want to control requests or allow them freely.
Red flag: They either ignore requests or play everything regardless of your list
5"Do you take song requests online before the wedding?"
Why ask: Guest song requests can guide the playlist.
Red flag: No system for pre-wedding input
Logistics & Business
1"Will YOU be the DJ at my wedding, or could it be someone else?"
Why ask: Large DJ companies may send substitutes. Get your DJ's name in the contract.
Red flag: They can't guarantee who will show up
2"What's your backup plan if you're sick?"
Why ask: Professionals have a network of trusted replacements.
Red flag: No backup plan or 'I never get sick'
3"How early do you arrive for setup?"
Why ask: Allow 1-2 hours for setup and sound check.
Red flag: They want to arrive 15 minutes before
4"Do you have liability insurance?"
Why ask: Venues often require vendor insurance.
Red flag: No insurance or they don't know what you mean
5"What's your overtime rate?"
Why ask: Weddings run late. Know the cost in advance.
Red flag: Vague pricing or outrageous overtime fees
Pricing & Contract
1"What's included in your package?"
Why ask: Understand exactly what you're paying for.
Red flag: Hidden fees for basic items
2"What's your deposit and payment schedule?"
Why ask: Standard is 25-50% deposit, balance before or on wedding day.
Red flag: 100% upfront with no refund policy
3"What's your cancellation/refund policy?"
Why ask: Plans change. Know your options.
Red flag: No refunds under any circumstances
4"Do you provide a written contract?"
Why ask: Never pay without a signed contract.
Red flag: Verbal agreements or handshake deals
5"Are there any additional fees I should know about?"
Why ask: Travel fees, parking, meal requirements, etc.
Red flag: Surprise fees after signing
Red Flags & Green Flags
Red Flags - Walk Away If...
- No videos or references available
- Can't guarantee who will be your DJ
- No backup equipment or backup plan
- Requires full payment upfront
- No written contract
- Won't meet before the wedding
- Doesn't ask about your music preferences
- Seems more interested in their setlist than your vision
- No liability insurance
- Unprofessional communication
Green Flags - Good Signs
- Extensive wedding experience (100+ weddings)
- Willing to meet in person or video call
- Has videos from real weddings
- Professional equipment with backups
- Clear contract with all terms
- Asks lots of questions about YOUR vision
- Liability insurance included
- Flexible MC style
- Great reviews from recent couples
- Part of professional DJ associations
Wedding DJ Cost Guide
| DJ Level | Price Range |
|---|---|
| Budget | $500-$1,000 |
| Mid-Range | $1,000-$2,000 |
| Premium | $2,000-$3,500 |
| Luxury | $3,500-$5,000+ |
Tip: The average wedding DJ costs $1,200-$1,800. Prices vary significantly by location - expect 30-50% higher in major cities like NYC, LA, or Chicago.
How to Prepare for Your DJ Interview
Meeting with potential DJs is like an audition - for them AND for you. Here's how to make the most of it:
Meet in person or video chat
You need to gauge their personality and energy. Email exchanges don't reveal DJ vibe.
Bring your partner
Both of you should be comfortable with the DJ. Music taste disagreements are common.
Ask to see them live
Best way to evaluate a DJ is seeing them at an actual wedding or event.
Prepare your music vision
Know your must-play songs, do-not-play list, and overall vibe before the meeting.
Trust your gut
If something feels off, keep looking. You'll be working closely with this person.
Compare 3 DJs minimum
Prices and styles vary dramatically. Get quotes and meet multiple candidates.
Music Categories to Discuss with Your DJ
Your DJ needs to know your vision for each part of the day. Come prepared to discuss these music moments:
Ceremony
Processional, recessional, unity ceremony
Cocktail hour
Background jazz, acoustic, low-key covers
Dinner
Conversational volume, varied genres
First dance
Your specific song choice
Parent dances
Mother-son, father-daughter songs
Party starters
Songs that get everyone on the floor
Crowd pleasers
Multi-generational hits
Last dance
Send-off song
Pro Tip: Create Your Lists in Advance
Come to your DJ meeting with three lists: 1) Must-play songs (10-20 songs you absolutely want), 2) Play-if-you-can songs (songs you'd love but aren't essential), and 3) Do-not-play songs (anything you never want to hear at your wedding).
Quick Red Flags Checklist
Beyond the specific questions above, watch out for these general warning signs when interviewing DJs:
- Can't provide references from recent weddings
- Unprofessional communication (slow responses, typos, vague answers)
- No written contract or unclear terms
- Unwilling to meet before booking
- Won't let you create a do-not-play list
- No backup equipment or illness contingency plan
- Significantly cheaper than market rate (may indicate inexperience)
- Pressures you to book immediately
- Can't guarantee THEY will be the DJ (sends substitutes)
- No liability insurance
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